Chance OR Choice???

Well... time ku muka my personal folder pagi tu tiba-tiba ja mata ku terpeda ke siti file yang lama dah ku simpan tapi enda kala baca. Hihi mayuh ga interesting quotes n poems dlm nya. So salah satu yang paling menyentuh ati aku ialah tentang Chance or Choice.... Rasa ngena mai utai nya ba aku diatu sekaligus ku ka kongsi ngau bala kita..:) Tiba2 ku teringat ngau cinta siber ku diatu..hihi is it chance or is it choice?? Entahlah ku pun confuse.. Tapi ku harap aku dah muat keputusan yang betul bila aku melepaskan ia pergi....

When we meet the right person to love when we're at
the right place at the right time, that's chance. When
you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a
choice. That's chance. Being caught up in a moment
(and there's a lot of couples who get together because
of this) is not a choice.That's also a chance.

The difference is what happens afterwards. When will
you take that infatuation, that crush, that
mind-blowing attraction to the next level? That's when
all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate
whether you want to make this into a concrete
relationship or just a fling.

If you decide to love a person, even with his faults,
that's not a chance.That's choice. When you choose to
be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even
if you know there are many people out there who are
more attractive, smarter, and richer than your mate,
and yet, you decide to love your mate just the same,
that's choice.

Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by
chance. But true love that lasts is truly a choice. A
choice that we make. Regarding soulmates, there's a
beautiful movie quote that I believe is so true about
this: "Fate brings you together, but it's still up to
you to make it happen."

I do believe that soulmates do exist. That there is
truly someone made for you. But it's still up to you
to make the choice if you're going to do something
about it or not. We may meet our soulmates by chance,
but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a
choice we have to make. (Yupsss i really agree with this one..hihi)

We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to
love... BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person
perfectly...